Monday, 22 October 2012

Can I Marry This Man?

Hello Public, my name is Nana Abenaa and I am 26years old. I am living with a man who is 40years old without marriage, and he has 4 children already before I met him. I also have one child who is living with my mother in the village. This man is a womanizer and he insults me always. So I left his house and only visits him on weekends to cook and wash for him. During those times, I even came to
meet a woman in his room and he sacked me from his room. Later, he came to ask for forgiveness that I should come back.

His mother also came to plead for him and I agreed and came to stay with him again. He still insults me often and even uses bad words on me. He all the time insults me that I have got a very bad smelling vagina and also I am useless in life. These insults keep hurting me every day. But now, besides all these, he wants to marry. Public, do you think I have a good future with this man. Though, I am presently living with him, should I allow him to marry me. I am very confuse, please advise me.

Tuesday, 16 October 2012

NOT HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE

 Hello Public Relationship Help, my name is Rosina and I have been married to my husband for 5months now. My problem is that since I got married to my husband he has been having sex with me almost every day disregarding my health and my menstruation periods. When I complain, he says to me that ‘what is the benefit of marrying you if I cannot have sex with you anytime I want?’

This persistent sex has giving me bruises in my vagina and it is torturing me emotionally.

 He goes to the extent of saying to me that if I do not allow him to have sex with me as and when he needs it, I should not blame him if he cheats. I panic anytime he comes back home from work every evening and goes naked. I have spoken to him several times about it but he seems not to understand me. Our parents are aware of my situation but they have not been able to convince my husband, please help me because I am no more happy in my 5months old marriage.
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